Detail
It is painful to like someone and to realize that some details will make compatibility impossible. Nomatter how many similarities there exist between you. The details make the difference. A very big difference.
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Flaws
You think more about other people than yourself. You try to understand the reason why they did x or y, then justifying their dids with the created explanations. Most of those explanations aren’t made from good will but out of fear of confrontation. It is easier than dealing with the real issue.
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The only reason you don’t move forward is because of distractions. You are distracted by everything. Get your act together on one thing very important and focus on that. But how can you do that when the basic things like food, housing and resident permits are not put into place? Don’t think too much about this. But how do you stop thinking too much about such things when they will determine the course of your life? It is not like these things are not important, but don’t kill yourself for things you cannot control. Focus on what will give you those things not on them directly. They are the derivatives of hard work. Work extremely hard on yourself and the world will be yours. Haven’t you heard that the world belongs to the man who conquered himself?
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Too nice, way too nice, this has to stop, you rarely and hardly say no. People will take advantage of that too easily. Whenever you talk to someone, and It is about to turn into a fight, you start smiling, as if there is no problem, until the problem manifests itself later, because it is too large of a problem to avoid Now.