If you are to communicate, let it be the truth only. Only after having a clear picture of who you are, will you know if you are fit to move a long way ahead. You suffer because the people you love are not what you want them to be or as you envisionned them (including yourself). To know each other, you must communicate. Through communication you get to know the truth about each other’s personality. It will determine how far you can move with one another. You will not be able to have a genuin relationship unless you come to love/like each other’s personality. So, my dear friend, never force anyone to love/like your personality or force yourself to love another person’s personality. But how often do you fail to do that? Many times.

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Whenever you say the truth, you free some space in your mine. You don’t have to remember or to orchestrate anything in order to make it remain a truth. A lie must constantly be redefined. It feeds on itself. Lying implies a lot of thought. It is an artificial connection of variables. A liar must make sure that all those variables are present for his lie to remain believable, for his lie to remain a “truth”. That is why lies feed on themselves, they have to be constantly checked. It must constantly be revised, rearrange, in order to give the same result: Another LIE. A truth is a constant. You are not yet up to that level my dear friend Thierry, I want you to make it a habit of telling the truth, acting truthfully.

I don’t yet know of any animal apart from man that lies.

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Whenever you face a problem, the first and easiest thing to do is to seat and dodge the problem, to hide it under the carpet as if it never existed and will have no consequences in your life. The second and hardest one is to think about the problem with the desire to solve it and taking actions to solve it. And nothing is as painful and rewarding as the second approach. So many times have you hide yourself from your problems.

It is very common to pretent that you are solving a problems. You enter into a delusional solution to your problem. You invent a solution you know is not a solution, just to avoid dealing with the problems, but it always come back. If you really want to solve a problem, do it with the intention to never have to face it again. You may encounter such a problem in the future but because of the level of focus and seriousness with which you solved the first one, the second problem should be easy for you.

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When it comes to relationships my friend, don’t move if you don’t know who you are and where it is that you wanna go. This is one of your flaws my friend: You engage yourself too fast. It is an obligation to study whom or what you have before you, especially yourself.